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Top 10 Travel Photos (Part 3)

Top 10 Travel Photos (Part 3)

Scrolling through my socials this morning, I realized it’s been far too long since I posted a top travel photos blog—2018, to be exact. That’s a shame, because our travel community has done some truly incredible things in the years since. Narrowing it down to ten highlights feels almost impossible, so I won’t. Instead, I’ll start at what feels like a natural point: our travels post-COVID. The world has changed, and truthfully, so has how we travel. While there were plenty of adventures between 2018 and then, it feels like the right place to begin our “new normal.”


#1 Dubrovnik, Croatia

Traveling again after lockdown was a strange and emotional experience. Our family had endured a lot of loss, including the heartbreaking miscarriage of our third child, and even though navigating COVID regulations was challenging, we decided to visit Croatia and the Balkans. We wanted to step out of our routine, to heal, and to reconnect. A lockdown obsession with Game of Thrones helped narrow our choice—Croatia looked stunning on screen—and its location made it easy to explore nearby Bosnia and Herzegovina and Montenegro.

So many moments from that trip were life-changing—I say that without exaggeration. Watching the sun set over the waves of the Adriatic left me forever changed. But what made it truly unforgettable was how untouched it all felt. Maybe it was the lingering COVID restrictions or the difficulty of traveling at the time, but the place felt entirely ours. There were no cruise ships, no crowds, and I don’t even recall hearing English spoken. For those who’ve visited Croatia more recently, particularly after the return of cruise tourism and the euro adoption, you’ll understand why the emptiness of this moment felt so extraordinary. I’ve been back since, and while it never fails to impress, there was something magical about feeling like it existed just for Jordan and me.


#2 Secret Beach, Puerto Rico

Shortly after Jordan and I dipped our toes back into traveling, we wanted to bring the kids along. COVID restrictions were still in place, and the world hadn’t fully reopened yet, so we landed on Puerto Rico for a family trip. We rented a car and an Airbnb, but beyond that, we left the itinerary completely open-ended—partly because many things weren’t running on a full schedule, and partly because we had little kids and didn’t want to be stuck if they were cranky or uncooperative.

I love this picture because it captures a day that went entirely wrong. We drove three hours to tour a cave we had only learned about that morning, only to arrive and be turned away. It was a gut punch, but it led to one of the most incredible discoveries of the trip. We quickly Googled nearby beaches and found ourselves on a dirt road. We ditched the car and hiked through the jungle to a pristine, hidden beach that, to this day, stands out as the greatest surprise to come from a failed plan.

We had the place entirely to ourselves. I did get wildly sunburnt—hey, I hadn’t planned to hit the beach that day—but we found amazing shells, beach glass, and perspective. Sometimes, when things go “wrong,” the most magic happens. You just have to lean into the chaos a little.


#3 Scotland Surprise

Our first group trip after COVID was to Northern Ireland and Scotland. Originally, over 40 people signed up, but with the unpredictability of COVID, we ended up with 23 travelers—well, 24. Mason had been a student of mine in Atlanta that year, and when a scheduled school trip was canceled, he and his mom decided to join our Scotland adventure. It was a big year for them—Mason turned 18 on the trip, and Melissa celebrated her birthday as well.

Not long after they enrolled, I received an email from Mason’s dad, Jay, asking for help with an incredible surprise. In addition to the birthdays, it was also Jay and Melissa’s wedding anniversary. Jay’s plan was simple but extraordinary: show up unannounced and give them the surprise of a lifetime.

It still brings tears to my eyes thinking about the care that went into it. Jay said he didn’t need anything elaborate—just being together was the occasion. While there were countless Instagram-worthy moments on this trip—the breathtaking landscapes, the incredible experiences—this one stands out above all. Moments after Jay walked through the hotel lobby, there wasn’t a dry eye in the room. To this day, it remains one of the sweetest, most unforgettable surprises I’ve ever witnessed.


#4 Kotor, Montenegro

The Balkans left such an impression on my heart that we brought a group back the following year—probably one of our quickest turnaround trips ever. At the time, Croatia and the Balkans weren’t exactly hot destinations, so it still amazes me that these 14 adventurous souls said, “Yeah… sure, let’s go!” Talk about trust.

What unfolded on that trip really changed how I approach group travel. In the past, I tried to pack as much action as possible into each itinerary. It was amazing, and we saw a lot, but by the end, we were exhausted. You got your money’s worth, sure, but often at the expense of rest and relaxation.

For this trip, we intentionally built in downtime and gave travelers space to explore on their own and get exactly what they wanted out of the experience. I’ll admit I was nervous to try it, but it was a wild success. Everyone went home more rested and rejuvenated—and many have requested that intentional free time become a standard part of future trips, which we now prioritize.

This picture is from that trip—we had just crossed the border from Croatia into Montenegro and were taxiing to our hotel by boat, right before an afternoon of free time exploring Kotor. Peter said the boat ride made him feel like James Bond—and that’s exactly how a trip should feel: invigorating, exciting, and exactly what you need.


#5 Maasai Warriors, Kenya

On Christmas Day 2023, I lost my very best friend in a car accident. She and her husband were killed by a drunk driver, leaving their three young sons orphaned. The loss rattled me to my core—not just because of the obvious heartbreak, but because of all the plans we had discussed, the dreams we’d shared about the memories we would make with our kids when they were a little older, a little easier—dreams she would never get to realize.

I remember thinking, what if that were me? What if I missed the chance to make memories while I could? In that moment, I decided I wasn’t going to wait for life to be comfortable or convenient. I was going to take every opportunity, no matter how small, to make memories with my kids in the only time I had—now.

I’ll admit, it was scary, uncomfortable, and probably a little financially risky. But we decided, “to hell with it,” and planned a trip with the kids to Kenya. Archer was only six at the time, and the idea of such a long plane ride filled me with anxiety. Was he perfectly behaved the whole time? Absolutely not. Were there tears, tantrums, and jetlag? 100 percent. But what followed was an adventure that changed our lives in the most positive way and created memories we still reminisce about daily.

Here, the boys are learning from our Maasai hosts the traditional dances and chants used to welcome visitors, impress the ladies, and ward off would-be threats. We slept in a dung hut, and the boys received Maasai names—Kakenya and Oloshipa—while lions roared in the distance. It was hard, messy, and chaotic. Old me would have talked myself out of it, but I am so grateful we took the leap. Jetlag, nosebleeds, and all, this trip became a turning point for our family—a moment that changed how we parent and how we see opportunity.


#6 Algarve, Portugal

Also in 2023, I had a dream to turn Land + See into more than a hobby—I wanted it to become a full-time, legitimate business. I had seen firsthand the beauty travel brings—not just helping people unwind, but connecting them to the places we visit and the people who call them home. Perspectives shift, and suddenly, the world feels more personal and connected.

A friend of mine, a successful businesswoman, encouraged me to think bigger, to see Land + See for what it could be, and to plan backward from that vision. I noticed that many of our travelers started out as solo female travelers—women who had put off travel for one reason or another, whether they didn’t have anyone to go with or life and work got in the way. I realized there was a real need for a supportive community for these women—and the Girls Trip was born.

You might think a trip full of women would be drama-ridden, but it was anything but that. We had the most incredible time exploring Spain and Portugal together. This photo makes me laugh every time I see it. We were scheduled for a private boat tour of the Algarve caves, but upon arrival, the captain called to say it wasn’t private and was about to leave—without us. If we wanted to go, we had to run. Here we are, literally sprinting to make it before departure.

What could have been a stressful moment turned into one of the most fun experiences of the trip, and now it’s a story we still laugh about. It perfectly captures what Land + See is all about: spontaneity, adventure, and making memories together.


#7 Tiny Traveler, Greece

The following summer, we had an incredible trip to the Greek Islands. Our travel family was starting to grow, and one of the sweetest moments was welcoming a mother-daughter duo, Stephaine and Layla. Stephaine had originally signed up for our Thailand and Vietnam trip scheduled for 2020—and, well… you know how that story goes. Rather than writing us off, she returned and brought her 10-year-old, spunky daughter along for the adventure. Layla was the only kid on the trip, which might have intimidated other parents, but she quickly won everyone over.

Watching them together was truly special. Traveling and making memories with your kids is one thing, but seeing a solo parent make it a priority—showing her daughter the world rather than just talking about it—was inspiring. Our children watch us closely. They see what we prioritize, how we pursue our passions, and how we balance work, life, and empathy. Travel is more than a trip—it’s an investment in yourself and in the lessons your kids learn by watching you live intentionally.

After the tour Greece with us, Stephaine and Layla took it a step further—heading to Milan to see Taylor Swift in concert—talk about a bucket list summer.


#8 Following Your Dreams, Japan

I taught Dakota when he was a freshman in high school. His senior year—before Land + See even existed—we took a group trip to Japan. Dakota came from humble roots, and if he was going to make this happen for himself, it would be by his own blood, sweat, and tears, not unlike my own upbringing. He worked part-time, scrimped, and saved to make the trip a reality—and it was life-changing for him.

A few years later, when Land + See decided to return to Japan, it should have come as no surprise that our first recruit was Dakota—again! It was actually funny because I hadn’t even announced the trip yet, but somehow Dakota had found the enrollment form, signed up, and paid before it was ever announced. His spidey senses must have been in overdrive.

This trip was truly special because Dakota was all in—24/7. He experienced everything with intention, joy, and enthusiasm that was absolutely contagious. Visiting Japan again was a dream come true for him, and you could literally see the spark of inspiration igniting. On the trip, he told me that his dream was one day to live there.

Well, Dakota reached out just a few days ago to let me know that he finally did it—he got accepted to university in Japan and will be studying there this fall. Watching people chase their dreams and having a front-row seat to that journey is one of the most fulfilling parts of travel.


#9 Remco’s Nana, Scotland

For years, Jordan and I would watch pro-cycling races on television. I mostly tolerated them in the background, but one cyclist caught my eye: Remco Evenepoel. He had a massive crash in Italy, on a treacherous course Jordan had raced a few years earlier. Remco flew over a bridge and broke his pelvis—a career-threatening injury. I followed his story for two reasons: one, I watched it happen live on TV and was petrified, and two, travel makes things personal. Since Jordan had raced that course, it could have been him.

While I can’t say my interest in pro-cycling skyrocketed, I did pay attention when Remco returned to racing. He made a full recovery and continued to dominate the sport, much to everyone’s surprise.

Later that year, when Jordan was racing as an amateur in Scotland at the same event as the pros, we used his off day to watch the race. Imagine my surprise when I bumped into Remco’s grandparents, cheering him on from the front row. It was incredible to cheer alongside two of the most important people in his life.

It’s safe to say Remco remains one of my favorite pro-cyclists—not just because I met his Nana, but because of his grit, determination, and refusal to give up.


#10 Cappadocia, Turkiye

My social media feed was flooded with pictures of magical hot air balloon–dotted skylines and fairy chimneys, and suddenly I became fascinated with Turkiye—Cappadocia, to be exact. After some research, I realized it wasn’t the easiest place to reach. It’s not within driving distance of Istanbul and requires flexibility and planning to get there. But that didn’t intimidate me. Jordan and I loaded up the kids and flew 11 hours non-stop to see what all the fuss was about.

I’ll admit, I was nervous. What if it was a letdown? What if it seemed cheesy? What if the Instagram-perfect skylines I had been drooling over didn’t live up to the hype?

The reality, however, was breathtaking. While there were certainly a few wannabe influencers trying to capture “the shot,” the magic of Cappadocia was undeniable. It wasn’t just one incredible day—balloons floated across the skyline every day, in the most whimsical, dreamlike settings.

The trip itself was unforgettable. We climbed fairy chimneys, descended into valleys, marveled in mosques, shopped in bustling bazaars, fed seagulls, made pottery, watched whirling dervishes, and ate our weight in Turkish delight. Cappadocia was every bit as enchanting as I had imagined—and then some.


Ten already? See, I knew this would be an impossible task from the start. It feels like I’ve barely scratched the surface of the incredible memories we’ve made over the past few years.

Travel has a way of acting like glue. It heals, connects, and helps piece us back together. There’s something deeply comforting about looking back at a scrapbook full of lived moments instead of what-ifs and regrets.

If you’re already taking opportunities as they come, I’m proud of you. And if you’re not, I hope this serves as a gentle nudge. The only time we’re promised is now. Get out there. Take the chances you’re given—travel and otherwise. You have one beautiful life, and it would be a shame not to live it fully.

Off-the-beaten-path in Japan: A day in Mukugawa Village

Off-the-beaten-path in Japan: A day in Mukugawa Village

I’ve always believed that travel is a vehicle for human connection and a way to uncover the common ground that connects us all.

Blame it on the stubbornness of a nineteen-year-old expat trying to survive on rice and tortilla chips who had to learn the hard way that your life is only as rich as the people in it. Some of the greatest lessons in my life have been shared over a home-cooked meal and an honest conversation.

That first struggling semester in Micronesia paled in comparison to the joy I found amongst my adopted Sri Lankan family later that year. My auntie upped my cooking game by teaching me how to mix flavors for depth and quality—My entire perspective shifted when I saw how joyful life could be with only the simplest of things and without the added pressure of keeping up with the Joneses—And surprisingly, I learned not to take myself so seriously, and to laugh a little along the way, often at my own expense!

When I started traveling later as a tourist, it became really hard to be satisfied by the Eiffel Towers and London Bridges of the world. They were beautiful, but there was no heart. I didn’t feel the connection I so desperately craved and often left places feeling just as detached as before I even visited.

I slowly awoke to the fact that my travels were lacking that human connection. There was no Jack Dawson inviting me to see a “real party” below deck and teaching me to see the people around me and the richness of a different way of life.

When I started Land + See Tours it was out of frustration at the cookie-cutter itineraries I’d been spoon fed up to that point. They were bright, and shiny, but lacked the depth and authenticity I’d gotten from my year abroad. Much like the start of my teaching career years ago, Land + See grew from the idea that there had to be more to it than I was given—surely it can be done better!

Our recent trip to Japan is a testament to this philosophy. While we met some pretty amazing people and made memories we will cherish forever, nothing was quite so impactful as the gift of a glimpse into the lives of the people of Mukugawa.

Before going any further I have to take a moment to thank Hiromi-San at Tour du Lac Biwa for hand-curating this experience for our group. Admittedly, this isn’t a tourist hot spot. You can’t book this on tripadvisor. It existed only for us—something I can’t thank Hiromi and the villagers for enough, and something that definitely added to the charm of this day.

Here is an in-depth look into our unforgettable day there.

About an hour and a half outside Kyoto, and nestled snugly within the Shiga prefecture of Japan, lies the unassuming, quaint village of Mukugawa. Unlike some other long-abandoned-rural-village-turned-tourist-attraction towns such as Shirakawago, Mukugawa is still very much inhabited—granted, with a mere 29 residents, but it’s very much a living-breathing time capsule for a more traditional way of life.

The village centers around the local community center—hand-built by the villagers 150 years ago and still standing strong. Miraculously, the entire building was constructed without the use of nails, screws or electric tools. Instead, the building was constructed using a centuries-old Japanese carpentry system called joinery, which involves the creation of interlocking joints that join together carefully selected pieces of wood.

The main level has a fire-pit and an extensive gathering area gently nestled beneath an upper loft used to store rice straw. The roof itself is thickly woven from the same rice straw which has to be replaced every 15 years. Carved into the walls of the loft is the Japanese symbol for water—something the villagers need, both for a good rice harvest and protection from the fire risks that inevitably come with the traditional Japanese wooden architecture.

Life in Mukugawa is still fairly simple compared to the bustle of surrounding areas like Kyoto and Osaka. Villagers grow and harvest their own rice as their main ecological resource. On our walk, we wandered past dozens of local homes, including the home of one of our hosts, all surrounded by lush fields of rice paddies. It was a warm day, but we enjoyed learning about the rice harvest and local flora and fauna.

The villagers maintain two local Shinto shrines that are used as places of worship. The shrines are believed to create a link between the gods (kami) and human beings. The Tori gates provide a welcome entrance and invitation to purify oneself before visiting the small sanctuary within. Our gracious hosts taught us the Shinto way to pray—a gentle bow followed by two claps. This was arguably the most peaceful place I’ve ever visited.

Following our village walk, our hosts treated us to a traditional Japanese sit-down meal, and even let us help with the preparations. This was hands-down the freshest, most elaborate spread we experienced on the entire trip. There was something extra special about knowing the man who’s field the rice was lovingly harvested and prepared from. Talk about preparing a meal with LOVE!

In the afternoon, our hosts pulled out the big guns—local legend Masako-San! Together with her host of ladies, she attempted to teach us to make rope from rice straw, and some of us were better students than others. Personally, I ditched my project pretty early on, getting lost in her stories from the early days in Mukugawa, explained via a translator.

Masako has lived in Mukugawa her entire life. She was born in 1933, vividly remembers the war, and has raised her family here. Her crew has grown to include a whopping twenty-one great grandchildren. While she doesn’t speak any English, we were lucky to have translators handy that helped us have a lively and heartwarming chat about life growing up in Mukugawa and the hardships and beauties of such an amazing way of life.

When I asked if I could take her picture as a personal souvenir to remember this moment, she said she will take the entire experience with her as a souvenir when she goes to Heaven!

The final activity of the day was a traditional Japanese tea ceremony, led by Mukugawa’s leading tea guru. Our gracious host has devoted her life to preparing and serving tea in a ritualistic and ceremonial way. Originally adopted from Chinese culture in the 14th century, the tea ceremony serves many purposes—promoting harmony and mindfulness, creating a bond through hospitality between host and guest, encouraging well-being, and much more!

The host supplies the guest with a light snack while seated across from them. While the guest enjoys their refreshment, the host prepares the tea by whisking matcha powder with hot water until gentle foam forms. The tea is served hot, and if it’s enjoyed, guests are encouraged to show their appreciation with a loud slurp!

The magic of a place isn’t in it’s big cities and bright, shiny tourist traps. It’s in the sharing of home-cooked meals amongst new friends—In awkwardly wrapping your tongue around foreign words and phrases—In deep bows, and rice straw and the lessons to be taught through aged hands, lovingly passing down shared traditions—In unexpectedly hard goodbyes—and the pieces of ourselves that we leave behind in one another—that’s where the real magic lies.

I don’t know a lot, but I know that Mukugawa is magic. I hope that you have the chance to visit one day. And if not, at least take the idea with you that real magic is found off the beaten path—in the stories and lives of the people who live in the places you visit—The special kind that isn’t pre-fabricated and sold by the thousands. The kind that is just for you and that can’t be left behind or properly shared with those who didn’t experience it first hand—the kind you take as a souvenir with you to Heaven.

Arrigato!


Tips and Tricks for exploring Japan

Tips and Tricks for exploring Japan

Japan is a captivating country with a rich cultural heritage, stunning landscapes, and vibrant city life. Summer in Japan brings a unique charm, but it also presents certain challenges such as scorching temperatures, crowded tourist sites, and cultural norms to respect.

In this blog, we will explore essential tips and tricks to help you navigate Japan during the summertime, paying special attention to cultural etiquette, efficient use of public transportation, and managing crowded tourist sites.

  1. Embrace the Culture: Japan has a strong emphasis on politeness, respect, and harmony. Familiarize yourself with basic cultural etiquette to make a positive impression:

    • Greetings: Use a bow to greet locals. A slight bow with a smile is usually sufficient.

    • Shoes off: Remove your shoes when entering traditional places like temples, ryokans (traditional inns), or someone's home.

    • Respect personal space: Japanese people value personal space, so avoid touching others or standing too close to someone.

    • Avoid public displays of affection: Kissing, hugging, or any excessive physical contact is considered inappropriate in public.

    • Learn a few basic Japanese phrases: Locals appreciate efforts to speak their language. Phrases like "arigatou gozaimasu" (thank you very much) or "sumimasen" (excuse me) go a long way.

  2. Beat the Heat: Summers in Japan can be incredibly hot and humid. To stay comfortable:

    • Stay hydrated: Carry a bottle of water with you at all times and drink frequently to prevent dehydration.

    • Dress appropriately: Choose lightweight, breathable clothing made from natural fibers. Consider wearing a hat, sunglasses, and sunscreen.

    • Take breaks indoors: Seek refuge in air-conditioned places like shopping malls, museums, or cafes during the hottest hours of the day.

    • Use cooling products: Utilize cooling towels, handheld fans, or even portable air circulators to stay refreshed.

  3. Efficient Public Transportation: Japan's public transportation system is renowned for its efficiency. Here are some tips to make the most of it:

    • Be mindful of rush hours: The morning and evening rush hours can be extremely crowded, especially in major cities like Tokyo. Plan your travel accordingly or consider traveling during off-peak hours.

    • Queue patiently: When boarding trains or buses, form a neat line and wait for your turn. Avoid pushing or cutting the line, as it goes against Japanese etiquette.

    • Priority seating: Give up your seat to elderly, pregnant women, or those with disabilities. Priority seating is labeled and usually located near the entrances.

  4. Managing Crowded Tourist Sites: Japan's popular tourist attractions can become congested during summer. Here's how to navigate them smoothly:

    • Plan in advance: Research and book tickets online whenever possible to avoid long queues.

    • Visit early or late: Arrive early in the morning or later in the evening to beat the crowds and enjoy a more serene experience.

    • Explore lesser-known destinations: While popular sites like Kyoto's Kinkaku-ji or Tokyo's Tsukiji Market are worth visiting, also consider off-the-beaten-path destinations to experience a quieter side of Japan.

    • Respect photography rules: Follow signage and guidelines at temples and shrines regarding photography restrictions. Be considerate of others and avoid blocking paths or disturbing worshippers.

    • Practice patience and politeness: Embrace

What to Pack: Japan (summer edition)

What to Pack: Japan (summer edition)

Packing efficiently for a trip to Japan is a must! With so much movement from place to place, strict baggage requirements on the planes and trains, it is essential that you condense your luggage to just a carry-on-sized piece of luggage and a personal item. While that may seem daunting, it is a great way to stay organized, light on your feet, and avoid unnecessary baggage fees (which aren’t covered by your tour fee). Here's an essential packing list for traveling to Japan over the summer:

Clothing:

  1. Lightweight, breathable tops (T-shirts, tank tops)

  2. Comfortable pants or shorts

  3. A lightweight jacket or cardigan for cooler evenings

  4. Undergarments and socks

  5. Comfortable walking shoes or sneakers

  6. Swimwear, if you plan to swim

Toiletries:

  1. Travel-sized toiletries (shampoo, conditioner, body wash, toothpaste)

  2. Toothbrush and toothpaste

  3. Deodorant

  4. Sunscreen

  5. Travel-sized hand sanitizer

  6. Hairbrush or comb

  7. Any necessary medication or prescription items

Electronics and Documents:

  1. Passport (ensure it's valid for at least six months from the date of travel)

  2. Flight tickets or e-tickets

  3. Visa (if required)

  4. Travel insurance details

  5. Cash, credit cards, or a travel card

  6. Mobile phone and charger

  7. Adapter plug (for Japanese outlets)

  8. Portable power bank

  9. Earphones or headphones

  10. Camera or smartphone for capturing memories

Miscellaneous:

  1. Travel towel or quick-drying microfiber towel

  2. Universal travel lock (for securing your luggage)

  3. Travel-sized umbrella or a lightweight raincoat

  4. Reusable water bottle

  5. Snacks for the journey

  6. Language guide or translation app

  7. Small backpack or day bag as your personal item

  8. Travel journal and pen

Remember to check the weather forecast before your trip to pack accordingly. Japan can be quite hot and humid in the summer, so lightweight and breathable clothing is recommended. Keep in mind any specific activities or events you plan to participate in while in Japan to ensure you have the appropriate attire.

Lastly, aim to pack versatile items that can be mixed and matched to create different outfits, maximizing your wardrobe options while minimizing the number of items you need to pack.